Thursday, March 28, 2013

the side of the road can be a magical place

This morning I went to visit a couple of farms where five elephants were shot late last year, but that is another story entirely, and if I get closer to a grip on it, I will share later on. But in far more trivial matters, my truck was covered with dust and crusted dirt and splattered bugs and really needed a bath. So on the way back, I stopped at a CAR WASH sign on the roadside – in front of a few poles covered over with green shade netting and no indication of anyone working there. I got out anyway.


“Hellooooo,” I called, wondering if someone was in the house just behind the netting.

“Hello!” came a voice from the other side. Snake, as I soon found out was his name, was apparently more often called Rasta [in honor of his hair] by the friends passing by in cars and on foot over the next hour and a half.  I asked if he was the one washing cars and he said yes; we agreed on a price and I maneuvered my truck under the shade into the spot he preferred. He brought out a camp chair for me and I sat to wait, sweating and squinting in the afternoon sun.

I took the time to write notes from the morning’s farm visits; since these were first encounters touching on a sensitive issue I did not want to show up with a notebook and say hey, can I ask you about those dead elephants? I thought it would be wiser to introduce myself and chat a little, invite the farmers to the upcoming kgotla meeting, and leave it at that for a first visit. I have been thinking a lot lately about the importance of the ‘coming back’ in my research, how repeat visits shift the feel and content of conversations and interviews, and how a simple thing such as coming to ask permission first and then returning for an interview later can tune the tenor of a discussion.

At some point in my scribbling, in between looking up at Snake’s meticulous scrubbing and rinsing and greeting those folks walking past who greeted me, I realized that it was probably not every day that a white girl sat at Snake’s place on the roadside to wait for her car to be washed. Most white people here have someone working for them to do this at home. So I grinned to myself at being a bit of a curiosity.

A shiny little white car slid to a stop at the roadside just a few yards away. A young man got out and walked up to me in my chair; “I was just driving by and I thought I should greet you!” he said.

“Ahhh, but it has been a loooong time!” I said with delight, seeing Thata’s face beaming back at me. Thata was a student on the first field school in which I was a faculty member, one of the few African students in the group. We hugged and chatted; “I’m just around, helping my mom,” he replied when I enquired what he was up to. I got his number, both of us excited by the possibility of him helping me with translation and some work in the village. He climbed back into his car and I sat back down in my chair.

Finishing my notes, I put away my pen and paper. Snake asked, “I must vacuum also, no?”

“Yes, please, if you can,” I replied, not sure about the equipment or the electricity. But Snake was prepared; I retrieved my Ipod from inside the car to entertain myself.

A few minutes later, a little girl of perhaps three who had been peeking at me from the side of the house wandered up beside me. She looked at the Ipod; I shaded it with one hand so she could see the screen more easily. The cards from my hand of Solitaire flipped quickly to their piles as I won the game and she watched intently. I opened up my photos, bringing up a video of wild dogs on the side of the road I’d shot on the way into Kasane. “Dijo,” I said. “Dijo,” she said. She was transfixed, leaning in now, pressing her head against my arm. Soon she aimed her first finger carefully at the screen, mimicking the way I touched the pictures to make them move.

I played a video of my nephew feeding the giraffes at the zoo in Colorado; every time he reached up with a lettuce leaf that got swiped by a long purply tongue, he giggled. Then I giggled. Then the little girl giggled. We watched the video three or four times as she worked her way closer to me, up against my arm, then under it, then draping herself over my left thigh and popping the screen with her index finger to make the images jump.

She looked up at me. I pointed into my chest and said slowly and clearly, “Rachel. Rachel.” I pointed to her chest. “You?” I repeated my name and looked a question at her.

She pointed to my chest. “Ratcha.” She did it again. “Ratcha.” Then she pointed silently to herself.

“Ah, but is she not bothering you?” Snake asked me. I’d had the feeling he was moving more and more slowly as we watched giraffes and wild dogs and giggled, running his cloth over every crack and crevice two, three times, cleaning the dashboard and the doors and the windows meticulously, but with a lightness that showed he noted our playing and perhaps wanted to give us more time.

“Not even a little,” I said. I proceeded to show her how we could take a picture of the truck as he washed it, and of her, and of us together when I switched to the front camera. She giggled wildly and crawled up onto me like I was a tree.

When Snake finally finished, I stood and she skittered away. “Stay a little, let it dry some more,” he urged. “That one from before, who was here, he is my cousin,” he added proudly.

“Ohhh, good, I have known Thata for a long time,” I said, both of us pleased at this connection. I asked him the little girl’s name. “She is Thamelo, my daughter,” Snake said.

We chatted a bit about tourism, and his work, and my work, and elephants. “They are trouble,” he said somberly. An old man who had just zoomed in on a bike added, “They finish your garden in one night, just like that, you sleep and you wake and it is finished.” I told them about the upcoming meeting with the chief to talk about the problem and said I hoped they’d come.

I fished coins out of the side pocket of my bag to pay; I was five pula short, or he had to break a 200 pula bill. He couldn’t. “No problem, it’s enough,” he said easily, readily, taking five pula less than we agreed. “You can pass by any time and I will clean for you, and if I am not here, then there will be some boys here to do it for you, no problem.”

I thanked him several times. “Ah, I’m sorry, hey! I will bring the other five when I pass by tomorrow,” I said, but he was unconcerned, waving me off, smiling on the side of the road.